Stasi Eldredge's book "Free to Be Me" helps teen girls become the young women God created them to be.
Who do you think you are? Who are you on the road to becoming? Do you have a vision of who you could become? How does God see you? What is his vision of who you are to become? Ask him that question. And then wait for his answer.
Having a vision of who you are becoming informs your present. We live today knowing who we are going to be tomorrow. Knowing who you are becoming puts hope in your heart and a spring in your step. The key is to choose to believe we are who God says we are. And then rest in the knowledge that God is the One responsible for our transformation. We lean into him. We will fail. He will not.
So ask him, How do you see me, God? Please give me your vision of the woman I am to become. And then write it down. Write down what you hear from God or merely what, by faith, you choose to believe is becoming true for you because you want it to be!