The book “Killing Lions” is a conversation between John and Sam Eldredge about the trials young men face.
[John] Paralysis (masquerading as “confusion”) haunts every man when a looming decision will require a lot of us. Make note of that; don’t let it keep you from seeing the light in front of you. God is here to help us with our fears, but only once we name it as fear and do not hide behind, “I just don’t know what to do.”
What do I sense God saying about this?
You are friends with the brightest person in the universe—have you asked his opinion on the matter? This seems so obvious, but you’d be surprised at the number of Christians who don’t ask God or give him more than a day to respond.